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Dealing with a blow!

By Bamboo In The Wind

It is not an easy thing to deal with a blow. It comes unexpectedly. And it hurts really bad.

That surprise is the real problem. We are blindsided by which circumstances cause trouble and deal us a blow.

The surprise stems from unpreparedness to face situations. Sometimes these situations can have binary outcomes. That makes the blow really hard because options are limited. Clearly favorable or absolutely unfavorable. We miss a step, and we have an impact of a significant loss of opportunity. We get one step right, and we are on the winning side.

The surprise also stems from temperament. We must always know delicate situations depend on the last-minute composure as we enter the main frey. Composure massively weighs on the outcomes.

Preparing with extra care and diligence is an excellent way to handle delicate situations. A better way is to work on temperament with sufficient exposure to the big-day environment.

Organize practice that tests our nerves as it would in real life. It can save the day. That is the only way to deal with an impending blow. Perhaps even avoid it!


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