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Slip-up is a step up!

Avoidance of mistakes is a common phenomenon. You want to do things that will succeed. Can you guarantee success right at the outset? You never can. Yet every time you are ready to start, your resistance insists on finding signs of success.

It would be nice if you could assure success. Yet, failures are the only way to march in the direction of success. There is no way to avoid mistakes and impending failures.

Right decisions always follow the wrong ones. For example:

Take a test unprepared. You fail and learn what it takes to pass the test.

Go for selection unprepared. You get rejected and learn the regimen to be part of the team.

Flunk interviews and then know what discipline takes to clear the interviews.

Hire bad people for the job, and learn from the poor experience how to find the good hires.

There are numerous examples of what experience teaches you. They open the doors to success.

Be prepared for slip-ups because that's the best way to know what works and doesn't. They make your approach mature and grounded in reality.

Slip-ups are a way to step up your game! 

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