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Convergence and division of opinions!

Opinions rarely coincide. And that is expected.

You bring your history, education, and cultural peculiarities to cement your outlook toward looking at the world around you.

Biases play a vital role in anything of substance. You rarely find yourself passionately debating matters that do not affect you. On the contrary, err on neglecting them as trivial and brush them aside.

An open mind allows for reviewing your biases. An open mind provokes a review of how you approach and weigh in on matters. To someone with an open mind, there is no distinction between what is important and trivial. Because in such difference lies a unilateral bias.

An open mind permeates the accommodation of varied, aligned, and differing perspectives. It knows to stack them for a closer inspection of what was brought out. Plotting such a broad range of opinions allows for looking at the world from a different, sometimes a new, frame of mind. It also has the potential to reaffirm what you already know.

Opinions will differ; how you assemble them can amplify or diffuse biases. An agreement is usually a convergence of a particular idea we hold. It is rarely the absolute truth! It's a mere tool to decide the follow on action.

Compartments are closed and divisive. They trigger diversions. An open mind is a great unifier of opinions and subsequent actions.


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