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Naysayer!

By Bamboo In The Wind

No matter what opportunities come their way, they like to say no. Of course, those who want to say no to creating space for themselves and drawing fences so their privacy does not breach must learn how opportunities fall in their alley. They need to be closer to your core inclinations and interests initially.

More often, it's usually the way to shrug off responsibility and ownership!

It can be disheartening to opportunity creators because all they are eying for is electrifying the environment they can create or see. We will feel the excitement and be open to grab it with both hands.

But for us, any ball rolling our way disturbs the sanctity of what is kosher. But if what we see does fit the norm that defines kosher, then our response is based on the premise of keeping the status quo for us. 

That is grossly unfair to many others who need to see the change. They involve us in enacting the change. They sure lead the way, but they hope we will embrace their priorities openly.

Saying no is protective of our own realm; sure, it keeps our front yard open for what we want. But saying so also busts the enthusiasm of others enthused about the opportunity.

Albeit avoid the freefall. We at least owe a nudge for their sake! 

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