We think forward is the only good way to go. So going back feels bad. It feels like losing.
But that's not always true. Kurt Vonnegut once said a step back after a wrong turn is really a step in the right direction.
Think about it. You took a wrong turn. You're walking the wrong way. If you keep walking, you just get more lost.
So you stop. You turn around. You walk back a little. That looks like backward. It isn't.
It's the smart move. It's the move that gets you back on the right road.
We don't like to admit we went the wrong way. So we keep going, just to avoid turning around. That makes it worse, not better.
Going back isn't retreating. It's how you find the right path forward again!
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