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Comparision.

By Bamboo In The Wind
Comparison is a double-edged sword. On the one side, it makes us understand what we are missing and why. And that provides us with the drive to work hard. On the other side, it makes us constantly validate if we have or do what others have or are doing. There is a fine line between the two outcomes. And the outcome depends on our outlook and our nature.

The side that makes us understand why we are missing something that makes us better off. It shows us that there is hard work behind gaining what we desire. It tells us about the mindset of the go-getter attitude that is at the core of it. Importantly, such thinking helps us realize the steps that get us to where we want to be. 

When we act with this cognizance, we tend to have a fulfilling experience. Destination looks within reach. This principle is true everywhere in life, and at work. Fortunately, this side of the comparison is a ride on the softer side of the knife. It motivates us into action and provides a sense of direction.

The other side of the knife - the one that gets us into the realm of seeking validation - makes us feel the drag of something others have without understanding what their story was. We tend to overlook what got them there.

The other side of the comparison can be detrimental. It makes us run after what we don't have without realizing the efforts required and understanding whether some things really have a place in our lives.

Be careful of which side of the comparison you want to be on. The ride always turns out effortless. The drag? Experience it.

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