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Magic out of boring frameworks!

Many things in life are attractive at the start and get boring over time.

There are frameworks such as schooling, jobs, marriages, research, explorations, or start-ups. There is glamor in them when they are new. Filled with excitement about the potential of being in it for the greater good.

There is a show of partnership, going out of the way to help, accommodation for mistakes, or reciprocation with generous acts.

And then there come circumstances that take their sheen away. The excitement begins to fade away.

Most interesting forms of frameworks that looked promising now look hopeless mid-way through the experience of being in the framework! This is true for most things we do.

That is the time to stick around and honor the frameworks. Getting through this period of what looks boring is the period to stick the neck out and do the grunt work despite all the noise telling us to quit. It's time to back ourselves.

Most often, the magic happens when we do just that. Persisting with the framework allows for corrections, compounding from small acts providing room for adapting to challenging situations and overcoming them.

Staying power gets you cross almost anything! Muster the courage!

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