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Should we really consume what is included in the offer?

Often you buy things that come with an inclusion list of what is available out of the box.

You may step into a restaurant with an unlimited lunch offer. It is paid for; you better eat even if your food diet does not permit food grains. 

You may buy a feature-rich TV set with an OTT subscription and unlimited movie plan. That comes built-in, so use it. No matter if you need digital detox! 

Your travel packages with a whole-day sightseeing plan are packed with a growing list of destinations. You better visit, even if we want to take it easy and feel tired on a given visit day.

The trouble with the inclusions is we end up doing something unwanted because it is free. Saying no to undesirable things is a much better option. It is always better than going for free!

Same for our careers! Don't force unwanted on yourself if it does not resonate with you. Say no!

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