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Interactions that are remembered!

By Bamboo In The Wind

When you are with others, what you remember is the cordial interactions. This is true when interactions reflect genuine care and concern.

Interactions that directly touch on your well-being, what you do, where you are from, and what your interests and beliefs are, what they can do to help you. All such interactions tend to be fulfilling.

They try to understand you at your core. Not be judgemental. Not trying to look at you superficially. 

The generosity of offering others your attention is a gracious act. It comes from the confidence of having abundance and feeling secure about yourself.

On the flip side? You think if you offer yourself too much, you are getting emptied out to your detriment. The gripping fear that you are deprived of focus, priorities, and the fear of falling behind makes you act stingy.

You think concessions and the money will save you focus and keep you on track. Often it's not what the others really want. It is also not something that you want.

Everyone is just looking to have rich interactions. Interactions are excellent interventions in your productive spells. They help you feel energized. They are focus generators!

If playing a short-term personal game is your priority, it can come back to haunt you. A short-term and immediacy of outlook can turn out to be transactional in the end, although it may not seem like that.

If you ever intend to build some momentum in something that matters to you, it is best to overcome feelings of scarcity and insecurity. You are your best when they are absent. 

Generocity enriches interactions. You have to feel like you have abundant to share. Even when you don't!

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